Monday, July 6, 2009

Sexuality, Disability & Teaching

I'm teaching a class at the College of Mount Saint Vincent this summer called Women, Art & Culture. I'm super excited to teach this class again because I get to share and discuss topics I love. Also, I get to have my students interact with dynamic media, and phenomenal women. Guest speaker line up includes: Maegan "La Mamita Mala" Ortiz, Sofia Quintero aka "Black Artemis" and my homegirls from DC who focus on mestizaje identity and women in jazz music.

In researching videos to include in my syllabus, which is interdisciplinary and incorporates intersectional theories, I will be using the following videos throughout the class to highlight the connection of gender, race, age, ethnicity, national origin, disability, citizenship status, sexuality, sexual orientation, and other aspects of our identity. I think it is important to share resources. These three videos will be used in my class. They are created by The Empowered Fe Fes, a group of young women ages 13-24 who "all different kinds of disabilities and come from different racial and ethnic communities."

The first one is called Why The Got To Do Me Like That? Here's what the film is about from the website, Beyond Media, where you can purchase them:
(The Empowered Fe Fes Take On Bullying) was produced in a workshop with the junior group of the Empowered Fe Fes, a project of Access Living in Chicago. In this film, 13 young women with disabilities explore school-based bullying by interviewing people on why bullying happens and how they respond, then acting out common experiences with new solutions. The Empowered Fe Fes demand viewers to consider bullying as a serious issue of discrimination, letting us know that we can work together to both understand the stop the problem.



Why They Gotta Do Me Like That? from Beyondmedia Education on Vimeo.



The next video is called Beyond Disability and is about:
The Empowered Fe Fes (slang for female), a group of young women with disabilities, hit the streets of Chicago on a quest to discover the difference between how they see themselves and how others see them. Their revelations are humorous, thought provoking and surprising. As the young women grapple with issues as diverse as access, education, employment, sexuality and growing up with disabilities, they address their audience with a sense of urgency, as if to say, "I need to tell you so you'll see me differently."


Beyond Disability Trailer from Beyondmedia Education on Vimeo.



This last video is called Doin' It: Sex, Disability & Videotape

The Empowered Fe Fes, a peer group of young women aged 16 to 24 with different disabilities, strike again with their second video production, an insightful investigation into the truths about sex and disability. In the video, the Fe Fes educate themselves about sex from many angles by talking with activists and scholars. The viewer tags along on a date between a woman with a disability and her able-bodied boyfriend, exploring relationship issues of dating with a disability over a candle-lit dinner.

Doin' It: Sex, Disability and Videotape Trailer from Beyondmedia Education on Vimeo.



You may buy all these videos at Beyond Media.

I hope it goes without saying that having a "disability week" in a syllabus is condescending and inappropriate, just like a "lesbian week" or "Latino week" would be.

Here's My Plan:
Currently, I plan to introduce the topic of disability and how it intersects with our multiple identities on the first day of class. Students will complete a social identity profile/matrix and I have assigned a paper around this profile/matrix. My colleagues and disability activists have shared and suggested to me terminology, definitions, and statistics on people living with disabilities in the US especially among women, women of Color, working-class women, and youth. What I have discovered is that when disability is discussed with other aspects of our identity, able-bodied privilege is one of the most surprising privileges many able-bodied students rarely think about. It is often the only privilege that students openly talk about and admit to having (if they do) versus discussions of White privilege, privilege of citizenship, Anglophone privilege etc., which are usually met with more resistance and defense of such privileges.


I plan to use these videos throughout the class, on three different days, and showing them again (as they are all under 1 hour) at other times during the course when my students have learned media literacy skills (I think it's important for students to acquire the skills to then re-watch a film and actually see how their lenses have widened/shifted/become more informed). Usually, when discussing reproductive rights and health, I remind students that it was not just Puerto Rican, Haitian and poor women of Color who have been carelessly used as "guinea pigs" for birth control research in the US, but women with disabilities were included too and are still not protected or given the same rights/choices/agency.

When we discuss violence against women, where we watch NO! The Rape Documentary, I remind students of how women with disabilities are also survivors of assault and rape. When we discuss pornography and watch the Frontline documentary American Porn, we also read Helen Ryles' piece "Pornography" in the book Tales From The Clit: A Female Experience of Pornography, where she shares her experience as a blind and deaf woman reading erotica in Braille. Those are just a few examples of the media I use and how I facilitate a discussion that can utilize intersectional approaches with students.

I hope this post can begin conversations on what we as educators use in our classrooms and with one another. I want to challenge the ideas that we learn the best and most useful knowledge from a "book." Incorporating films, poetry, testimonios, sculpture, cartoons, photography, and TV (to name a few) are what I enjoy included in my classes. What are some other resources you use? Do you have thoughts on using these resources? Please share!

Sunday, July 5, 2009

Sunday Night Common Sense

My maternal grandmother died from Alzheimer's disease. I can see early traces of it in my mother today. When I last saw her in March, it was more apparent. She has yet to see a doctor about that specific issue.

Today as I was watching Waltz with Bashir, the main character went to a friend to discuss a dream/flashback he had upon hearing about another friends haunting dream of war. He thinks his friends dream triggered his memory/dream of war. He does not know if it was real or not. This is how the story begins. Here is what his friend tells him:


Memory is dynamic. It's alive. If some details are missing memory fills the holes with things that never happened...We don't go places where we really don't want to. A human mechanism prevents us from entering dark places. Memory takes us where we need to go.



Where will I let my memory take me? Where will you allow your memory to take you? How is giving into memory a form of freedom? Is the haunting of rememory as frightening as we allow ourselves to remember? Is it more frightening to not recall any of these memories? When an absence of rememory exists, then what? I wonder about all of this.

Latino Sexuality Links

A few links that I'm loving right now:

July 4th and Your Sexual Freedom by Dr. Marty Klein. He reminds us how July 4th celebrations are so much more than "independence" and shows us how it's linked to birth control, porn, and interracial sex!

True Blood's First Latina Vampire Speaks. I like the show, so having a Latina vampire in the mix is something I'll look forward too. You KNOW she'll be rocking red lips!

10 Surprising Health Benefits of Sex
, not that you didn't know this already, but sometimes it's important to have a reminder!

As the economy declines, birth control usage increases, by the National Latina Institute for Reproductive Health.

And just because I love Lisa Lisa and think she is a Latina Sex Goddess even today, here's one of my favorite songs eva! I still use this in my classes when I teach. this song is timeless!

Friday, July 3, 2009

Every Little Bit Helps!

Even if it's just $1, maybe $20, it's imperative we bring everyone who is often forgotten to the table to create change! Here's a message from my homegirl Meghan "La Mamita Mala" Ortiz:

In about two weeks la familia Mala (minus poroto) will head to Detroit for the Women’s Media Equity Summit and the Allied Media Conference.

After having attended the Reform Immigration for America Summit with poroto, it became really clear that just having travel money isn’t enough, especially with children. Sales of the SPEAK! cd and a scholarship from the WEC help make the trip possible pero there are table to buy so that we can share our work with you, housing, food, ground transportation.

So please consider making a small gift to one of these amazing mujer media makers (yes, myself included). As independent media makers rooted in activism, justice and amor, much of what we do isn’t compensated so gracias. It is because of you that we are all able to do what we do.

And ps: The AMC is beginning to feel like a spiritual pilgrimage for me, an opportunity to reconnect in the flesh with hermanas whom I love and respect fiercely. Just thinking about seeing Little Light, Cripchick , Fabi, Noemi, BFP, BA, Nadia, Elle, Kameelah, Adele , and Lex makes me get all teary. And the opportunity to share that experience with la Mapu makes me want to weep tears of joy. Ask Adele, the whole way to the airport after last year’s AMC I wept and made her ass weep. ja ja, Nothing like two Ricans overwhelmed by love.

Help us again…thank you

We need to get there.
We have fundraised, asked for grants, compromised, felt energized, asked for days off, gotten free airline tickets, borrowed time, overcharged credit cards and emailed/talked/made plans with friends and strangers across the lines.
And still call us shameless, we ask for more. Y porque no?

please consider donating to these fine, chingona mujeres

Maegan “la Mala” Ortiz, raising chingona mujeres. Sending single mami love
laMamitaMala.com
mamitamala@yahoo.com

Elle, southern sistorian, who I shall meet one day even if we live closer than other folks. Oh we shall share a beer very very soon http://elleabd.blogspot.com
mselleg@aol.com

blackamazon Sydette otherwise known as the bad ass who I love
http://guyaneseterror.blogspot.com
Sydette@gmail.com

Fabiola, fabmexicana who guest blogs here, leaving pedacitos de su corazon. Otra mami soltera de Cali
fabmexicana@gmail.com

Noemi Martinez
spiller of dreams-single mami
hermanaresist.com
csdistro@gmail.com

ms. cripchick
a powerchair-roaring queer radical woman of color
cripchick’s weblog
stacey.milbern@gmail.com

Many of us will be taking part in the Women’s Media Equity
Summit on July 16th.
At the AMC, we’ll be involved in several different caucuses, meetings and generally raising
a ruckus wherever you may find us. And OUR KIDS WILL BE CAUSING ALL SORTS OF MAYHEM AT THE KIDS TRACK AND IN GENERAL. It will be a sight to see. Things will happen. We will write/blog about it.


If you haven't purchased your SPEAK! cd yet you can still do it now!

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Maxwell's Back

Maxwell Rivera is back and in full effect! Many folks don't know he is from the Caribbean with a parent from Puerto Rico, which means he has sang in Spanish. I can't think of anything more sexually Latino than Maxwell. Here's what he sounds like when singing in a language other than English:






It's rumored he sings a verse or two in this song, but I have yet to hear it. Maybe one of ya'll can figure it out for me!

Scars, Walks, Friends

I wrote an article for an organization that is near and dear to me: Tamika & Friends, Inc. I was one of a fabulous group of women who co-founded the organization which is dedicated to eliminating cervical cancer through HPV education and prevention.

My current article is called Scars: The Wounds of Warriors & Survivors.

Tamika & Friends is also organizing their 2nd Annual Walk To Beat The Clock in NYC on September 19, 2009. Please consider attending and if you work for an organization or want to get your friends together to walk as a team please do so! I went last year and brought along my homegirl The Cruel Secretary. who wrote about the walk which you can read here. Here's our foto from the walk below:


That's Monika, Ryan, AJ (The Cruel Secretary) and I

And you can see more fotos of the NYC Walk, starting with The Cruel Secretary and I, here. You'll definitely see me there again this year!

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

How To Become a Sexuality Educator

I’ve had lots of folks as me how they can get into the same field that I am into. The short version, of how I got into this field, is that I took out a bunch of student loans and went to school. I have two master’s degrees, one in Human Sexuality Education and another in Women’s Studies.

If that’s not something you are interested in doing there are several other ways to get into the field. The first thing you need to understand is that you will need lots of training. This is important especially because you will be trained to give people gender-neutral and factual information, facilitate conversations, groups, dialogues, and work with numerous different populations. There are many things I do know about sexuality, and there are many things I don’t know about sexuality. Trainings are a life long experience in this field. Information is always changing and new techniques are being found to work or not work and it’s important that if you are going to commit yourself to the field of sexual science to stay up to date on what is going on in the field.

There are several ways to gain training, some you may have to pay for like me, and others you may be able to get for free, like me. I’ll tell you both ways and you can choose what is best for you.

Before I begin, I want to let folks know that going into the sexual science field as an educator, trainer, instructor, and/or activist does NOT result in a life of fame and wealth. If that is what you want, you may have to go into an entertainment area or medical area of the sexual science field. The latter would require a medical degree of some sort. Just be warned, many of us in this field are not all wealthy, but we love what we do and we are committed.

One of the fastest ways to gain some training for free is to volunteer with an organization. Many reproductive health and HIV education organization and some not-for-profit’s need volunteers on a regular basis. Volunteer opportunities may range from being a front desk person, greeting patients, escorting patients to therapy/medical appointments, paper pushing, web development, group facilitator, after school program, mentor, and the list goes on. Many locations will train you for FREE as long as you commit to a certain amount of time.

Other locations where you can gain valuable counseling experience would be to work/volunteer with a hotline in your area. Many national hotlines are always seeking people to help them manage and answer phone calls. I got some of my best training on pre-and post abortion counseling by working at the National Abortion Federation as a hotline counselor. It is a paid position and the hotline was opened for extended hours. Usually folks have a difficult time staffing those evening hours, especially the “graveyard” shifts of 24-hour hotlines. Before you even get to answer a telephone, you will receive training on how to manage and counsel callers. Usually, when you are ready to take calls, a seasoned counselor will supervise you. This is all part of the training and skills you will develop.

If you choose to pay for training and/or education, look towards your local community college for courses. You can also find certificate programs or continuing education programs at local colleges and universities. You can sign up for such programs and take a certain amount (ranging from 4-24) courses to receive a certification in a particular area of focus. Plus, you can audit a course at a local college or university. I would suggest speaking with a college counselor/advisor and looking into the policies on auditing courses. You will still have to pay for attending the course, but you are not taking tests or having to participate in exams unless you want to because you will not be receiving a grade.

If you are between the ages of 13-24 Scarleteen, a sexuality education website, is offering training to become a peer educator. If you are over the age of 24, it may still be helpful to inquire about participating in the training if you make a donation. It can’t hurt to ask, especially since it looks like this training is going to cover a lot of the basic things folks need to know about, looks like they offer it virtually, and begins soon!

Here is a list of other organizations that may be helpful in finding training and/or attending workshops:

Covenant House NY offers trainings that rarely go over $100. One of the best trainings I took there was in 2007 about US Drug Policy and the War on Drugs.

HRSA (US Dept of Health and Human Services Health Resources and Services Administration) provides training nationally. They also provide a list of regional centers where you can search to see what is close to the area you are in (US only).

TARGET stands for Technical Assistance Resources, Guidance, Education & Training The TARGET Center Web site is the central source of technical assistance (TA) and training resources for the Ryan White HIV/AIDS Program. The site is the one-stop shop for tapping into the full array of TA and training resources funded by the Health Resources and Services Administration’s (HRSA) HIV/AIDS Bureau (HAB), which administers Ryan White services. HRSA is an agency of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.


International Training & Education Center on HIV


Harm Reduction Coalition
Click on the map to see partner organizations where you can sign up to volunteer and possibly receive free training.

National Sexuality Resource Center provides summer institutes, national trainings, and wonderful blogs by several different contributing writers.

Cicatelli Associates Incorporated is based in NYC and they offer several trainings year-round which range from substance abuse, counseling techniques, HIV/AIDS guidelines, and motivational interviewing. Because they are located in NYC it may be a trip for some of you, however several of the trainings are FREE, so they may be worth a trip if you can make it over! Register EARLY for their trainings as they often become full quickly.

AIDS Community Research Initiative of America (ACRIA) offers several trainings each year as well and for FREE. They are also located in NYC. I would suggest getting on their mailing list so that you can be up to date on what they are offering and when. However, their site does give information on how to obtain training at a national and local level. Here is their current Training Calender.

Folks may laugh at the profession, but we are serious about what we do. We are so serious there are professional organizations, similar to the American Psychological Association and American Medical Association. Many of which doctors in the sexual science field are members. We have the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (ASSECT), the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality (SSSS), and World Association for Sexual Health (formally the World Association of Sexology). That’s just a few, but some of the major few.

I attended the ASSECT conference this year and am attempting to get my certification. Yes I know, over a decade in the field and I’m now just getting this certification. Let me be very clear: you do NOT have to join one of these organizations. They are professional organizations and the benefits of joining them are numerous. However, along with those benefits come hefty membership fees. If you do not make much money to begin with, those fees can limit your participation as it has with me. This year I decided to get my certification and see how it helps me (if at all) and how I can network. I chose to join the National Women’s Studies Association for three years in a row as that was the field I was in for a long period of time and the membership fee was minimal and you received a free annual subscription to the NWSA Journal. For a long time I was a professional feminist. Things change, and I welcome that change.

Now, I’ve had very interesting interactions with folks in leadership positions at AASECT that turned me off to joining the organization in the past, but I know that just because a handful of folks have less than exceptional bedside manners doesn’t mean everybody in the organization does! I’m also planning to attend and presenting two papers at the SSSS conference this year that is in Mexico in an attempt to build community with Latino sexologists (because there is a dearth in the US).

AASECT outlines very clearly what is expected to gain certification as a sexuality educator, counselor, and/or therapist. You can have numerous certifications and you can also have your own practice and services included on their website for people who are searching for providers.

You can also sign up to be just a member and receive the publication they provide. It may also be a good idea to look into the numerous sexuality education and science based literature that is produced monthly. Journals that come to mind immediately include:

-Journal of the History of Sexuality

-Sex Roles

-The Journal of Homosexuality

-The Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality

-Sexuality Research and Social Policy

-You may also want to check out the Electronic Journal for Sexuality Studies at The University of Delaware Library suggests.

These are just a few suggestions, I’m sure there are several more! For those of you already in the field or receiving training, please share what you have found useful and ways you have obtained training, certification and any other information that could be helpful. We need more sexuality educators, especially among people of Color and who are committed to working with communities that are under-resourced.