Today's common sense comes from the Introduction of the anthology written by Amber Dawn. I included this sentence in my review as well because it struck me as so true and honest. Dawn discusses how we discuss fear with our peers and how we create spaces that have some level of "safety" for us, and states:
creating safety—from staffing rape crisis centers to organizing queer sex parties—largely remains women’s work” (p. 10).
Yes, yes, yes! This is still women's work!
And I can't leave you without one of my favorite remakes of the Kate Bush song "This Woman's Work" by Maxwell who did not change any of the pronouns!